Living in a Gray World

I have to go on the record and admit that I hate gray. I think it’s dull, sad and depressing.
Now I know that interior designers are in love with gray—it’s the “it” color. Apparently, it’s the new neutral. Gray reminds me of the heavy, leaden winter skies in the Northeast where days dragged on and on, and seeing the sun was a treat.
So why would we recreate that bland, depressing environment in our homes? Gray—everywhere I look, people are painting their homes gray. Not just on the outside, but on the inside, too. Living room walls, bathrooms, bedrooms—everywhere there is gray.

I wish I knew who decreed that gray is hip and sophisticated so we could stage an intervention and release the American people from the tyranny of this despondent color.
In the community where I live, a designer decided to paint a large, cavernous restaurant gray, which she then accented with other shades of gray—a yellowish gray, a greenish gray and a darker gray. The effect is dreadful —eating in the restaurant reminds me of being in a cafeteria for depressed people—or an institution. I live in an “active adult” community where older people ride bikes, play baseball, workout in a gym and pursue many interesting activities. But when I go to our restaurant, I feel like I should be wearing a bib, and someone should be feeding me soft foods. The same designer has renovated other buildings in the community—and yes, they are all painted various shades of gray. I long for color—a wall of bright blue, a lovely sunny yellow or a soothing green would appease my despondent eye and soothe my psyche.
I wonder if I am a voice crying out in the depth of the great gray fog that has enveloped the environment. I can’t wait for the next “it” color to come along—and I pray that it is NOT gray, but rather an uplifting soothing color that pleases the eye and creates a happier atmosphere.

About Kathy

I grew up in Buffalo,New York the second eldest child in a family that eventually included eight children. The neighborhood was an Irish-American enclave. These two facts explain a great deal about me. I spent many years as a teacher who really thought of herself as a writer.

5 Responses to Living in a Gray World

  1. L. C. Hayden says:

    A gray day makes me depressed. All I want to do is go to bed and hibernate. Consequently, I’m with you. Gray is definitely not my color! Let’s go for the vibrant, colorful colors, like deep, gloomy black–just kidding on this!

  2. Marilyn Briant Rockmore says:

    I wholeheartedly agree with you Kathy. My sister remodeled her kitchen and guest room, both in a bland, nondescript grey. I’m sure it cost a fortune and it was horrible!

  3. Linda Young says:

    Ok. Gray is neutral but then you have to punch it up with something vibrant like yellow, pink or blue. Come on now!

  4. I don’t mind gray and a gray, rainy day is actually one of my favorite things–but I loved this blog post! Reminded me of the radio program a friend of mine is developing: “Growing Old Alone,” a title that sounds absolutely sad and depressing! She wants me to come talk on it, but I think I’m too lively for her focus!

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