As regular readers of this blog know, it’s been several weeks since I’ve posted anything new. I haven’t given up on the blog—it’s just that typing with the “hunt and peck method” using one hand is tiring. Why am I using such an inefficient method to type this blog entry? I had surgery on my left shoulder, basically immobilizing that arm and hand for an indefinite period of time.
So here I am, tediously typing this entry.
Like all of life’s experiences, I’ve learned from this one. I’d like to share some of my insights.
First, always ask your doctor if there will be much post-surgical pain. I didn’t and—well, let’s just say I was quite surprised—and not in a good way.
Second, ask your doctor how long your recovery will take. My doctor told me I’d need a few weeks of rehab (substitute months for weeks).
Third, under no circumstances should you mentally substitute easy for endoscopic. They are not synonyms.
Fourth, as difficult as it might seem, you can learn to bathe, dress, shampoo your hair, cook simple meals, and do laundry with one arm immobilized. It’s not easy, but it can be done.
Fifth, if and when your friends offer to help, say “yes.” No matter how well you are coping, it is heavenly to have help.
Like all challenges, you can survive this kind of surgery with prayer, a little moxie, a lot of determination and especially, the help and support of family and friends.
I know what you mean. I had this surgery in 1962 when medicine was primitive.
I was going into my sophomore of college. It took me 6 months before I could raise my arm above my head. AND it was my right arm. Therapy is your best friend. You’ll make it. Lucy
Your experiences and successes are well noted!
Now heal, heal, heal!!!! God’s blessings to you!
XX00
I guess it’s true that what doesn’t kill us makes us stronger. Of course, I can think of more pleasant ways of getting stronger. You should look into them. JJ
I’m sorry you are not having a good time. You will survive, but you will be changed. You will not be so naïve next time. Ask for help. I had no idea you needed help. We are a product of our life experiences and you are still growing. Damn it, life isn’t fair and never will be. Call I can tell you need lunch out.
Lynn
Enjoyed reading your musings re recouping! Glad you are ‘getting there’.
Was at singles Sun and they said your name as gal had a birthday card for you – Happy September Birthday.
Dear Kathy,
I hope by now you are doing much better.
We always enjoy your musings.
Love,
Bobbi Mastrangelo